Searching For A Mother

The project explores the ideal relationship between a mother and daughter, a universally relatable theme that occupies significant mental and physical space in the lives of all humans, regardless of cultural customs. What makes this particular bond so crucial? Can it be established without biological ties, solely through desire?

Kalsmose has placed herself on stage by contacting another woman to fill the role of a mother, years after her biological mother's suicide. She is in the process of legally adopting this new maternal figure. Spanish art photographer Alberto Garcia-Alix captures these poignant moments in powerful analogue black and white portraits. Through these images, Kalsmose and her new mother seek to emulate other mother-daughter relationships, sharing their story authentically.

With this artistic intervention, Mille Kalsmose consciously explores and challenges the constructed ideal of the mother-daughter relationship as a pathway to sought-after happiness. She focuses on what many perceive as a "natural" relationship—the bond between mother and daughter—an interest rooted in human stories and the exploration of shared narratives.